Girlfriend Code: When she don’t want your advice but wants your sympathy

I’m very confused by this concept and I’m not sure why this is a thing. When I signed on the dotted line to be your friend, I totally didn’t expect you to slip an emotional abuse clause into it in the millisecond prior to the print of my John Hancock. Yes, I consider it emotional… Read More Girlfriend Code: When she don’t want your advice but wants your sympathy

A New Perspective: My Trip to the Historic Ebenezer Baptist Church, Atlanta, GA

While I had been to this location once before, it had been for Watch Night (New Year’s Eve) service and I was there mainly to hear Jonathan McReynolds sing (insert praise hands). Today I was here for the choir and the pastor. I knew I struck gold when my man quoted Tupac and Chance the Rapper to talk about how respectability politics was cause Black people in the church to internalize suffering.… Read More A New Perspective: My Trip to the Historic Ebenezer Baptist Church, Atlanta, GA